Most
Essential Truths For Happiness
(As I see it, anyway)
After I was
on my personal journey to self-discovery for awhile, and had
by that time read many books and articles, I began thinking to
myself at certain points that this or that idea is the ultimate
key to all of it. My personal intent has always been to boil
"it" all down to its most essential form--to make it
as simple as possible. Eternal truths are eternal truths. They
aren't mine. When it comes right down to it, it's not so much
a matter of identifying some Truths as more essential than others
as much as it is that they've been thrown into a pile with countless
other ideas, and, it's difficult to sort through and find them.
When discovered, like a lost treasure, they sometimes have a
lot of debris clinging to them. So I am finding the ones that
mean the most to me, cleaning away the debris and presenting
them the way I would display them. Admittedly, other people might
have different ideas in doing this and their display would not
look the same as mine.
It seems
to me that Truth is simple. Yet, over the millennia, there has
been so much written and preached about Truth, so many different
parables and stories, so many variations, so many attempts to
distort it, that many find themselves confused in trying to ferret
out the key points. To see what I mean, just take a browse around
the self-help, psychology, philosophy and religion sections of
the major bookstores or in metaphysical/new age bookstores. You
will find an array of specific subjects that is almost overwhelming.
While our inner guidance, if we are good at listening, will lead
us to what is right for us, many seekers aren't that attuned.
Many don't know where to begin. This is one of the things that
makes the search for Truth seem so complicated. Which is the
right path to follow? This is the question that spurs my desire
to present what I regard as the most essential truths.
This cleaning
away of the debris could also be analogous to a sculptress chipping
away all of the non-essential to reveal the final form. The analogy
is not perfect, for in the case of the sculptress, she is creating
something unique. In my case, truth already exists within; I
haven't created it, but rather am trying to get to its essence.
Nothing I
say in a book or article on universal eternal truths is new.
It's important to remember that we all have access to Infinite
Wisdom. Truth lies within. Most of us, caught up in our daily
lives, aren't in touch with that fact. We aren't practiced in
accessing our inner wisdom. When you begin seeking truth, the
universe responds, often in the form of an experience or a person,
a book, an article, a tape that a friend gives you, a seminar,
etc. The particular form in which answers are revealed are determined
by you. In other words, the universe provides you answers in
a form that you can accept. These forms are really echoes of
the wisdom within you which you are now beginning to hear --
simply your internal wisdom manifesting in a form meaningful
to you.
And so, any
books that have had real meaning for me on my journey, have come
to me as a result of the universe answering in a way that I could
accept. It can also be stated that I drew them to me. I have
also picked up many more books, articles, tapes, etc that I quickly
discovered did not resonate with me, were not comfortable and
did not seem to answer the questions I was seeking answers to.
Those, I discarded. Many other seekers, meanwhile, probably found
those same forms most meaningful to them. This same dynamic is
true for you. The only thing I do, is express in a way that is
easily understandable for those who find what I say effective,
meaningful and comfortable to them. That presumably will not
be everyone. What will be most effective in revealing clarity
for others will be something from some other source and in some
other form. If you find truth in these articles, it isn't me
speaking; it's you (your inner self) hearing the one voice--for
there is only one of us here.
With that
said, let me now state what I consider to be a couple of the
most essential and powerful things for most of us to become clear
about. In other articles in this site, I discuss other Truths.
Be/aware
(Beware)
Let's get
on with it! Be/aware delaying your happiness until you have completed
the next book or the next seminar. Begin happiness now. That
is the whole point of everything that the great masters have
been trying to tell us. Be! We can't chase it as though it were
something outside of us. We must just make a choice to be happy
now. Staking our happiness on all of the things and conditions
out there that we imagine will make us happy is a futile waste
of energy. You can have great fun and adventure playing with
all the things out there and that's as it's supposed to be. BUT
THE THINGS AND CONDITIONS DON'T COME FROM OUT THERE; THEY COME
FROM WITHIN. All of the stuff out there becomes accessible to
you once you break your attachment to thinking that you NEED
them as a condition of your happiness. The universe is trying
to tell us that we don't need to attach to anything out there
since they are not the source; they are the effect. THE SOURCE
IS WITHIN.
So while
you are on your journey to enlightenment, you may as well be
happy now because you won't find it by delaying until some condition
is attained. I will remind you again, enlightenment is an evolutionary
process that continues beyond this particular life experience.
So stop delaying happiness in this one. It's a waste of life.
Let's get on with being joyful now, then we'll be in a position
of ease which opens us up to hearing our inner voice. In that
attunement, we will be more likely to know what action to take--the
right, perfect action. Besides, what we will find as we discover
truth is that we were supposed to be happy now.
I have said
that the ideal seminar would be one that could be considered
the last seminar the participants would think they needed. By
that, I don't mean it in the sense that it would be the definitive
seminar but rather in the sense that it would help them to be
convinced that: (a) all that they ever need is within them, and,
(b) that taking another seminar before they can attain happiness
will not be the final answer; deciding to be happy first, is.
Then they can take seminars for a more conscious reason--because
they enjoy it and are drawn to it as a direction from inner guidance.
Be/aware
the delay trap. We can study metaphysics until the cows come
home but it's all for naught lest we apply it. We can study all
the factors involved in learning to ride a bicycle--motion, inertia,
balance, gravity, design, posture, etc. but we will never learn
to actually ride one until we do it. And we will never learn
to do it by putting it off until we read another book or attend
another lecture. Decide to make your primary intent, happiness
now. Begin practicing it now.
Break
Attachment
Over the
years of my journey, I have come across a number of articles
that discussed the metaphysical meanings of many of the stories
of the Bible and other sacred texts. I have also seen metaphysical
interpretations of the Ten Commandments. The literal interpretations
of these writings have never resonated as truth to me, so I suppose
it's no surprise that the metaphysical ones have.
One of the
stories that had immediately become most meaningful to me, the
first time I read of its metaphysical meaning was the one about
Daniel and the lion's den. Daniel knew he was going to be cast
into the den with the hungry lion. The lion represents what we
fear. But Daniel prayed before hand, visualizing not what he
feared but what he wanted. When he was put into the den, he turned
his back to the lion. This represents turning our focus away
from what we fear, turning the problem, in total trust, over
to God. When the lion was released (according to the metaphysical
account), it simply fell asleep rather than attacking Daniel.
The idea is that the problem simply falls away, resolves itself,
once we turn it over to the universe in total trust. Just as
we don't know how to solve our problems ourselves (our ego selves)
with our limited perspective of the world, Daniel knew he did
not know how to defeat the lion, unarmed, face to face, through
mere physical effort alone. He detached from the problem and
turned it over to the spirit within. This story is to teach us
about detachment from our problems. We aren't responsible for
solving our own problems; we are however responsible for turning
them over to Holy Spirit (a metaphysical term for the universe).
This story for me is an incredibly powerful reminder of a most
powerful truth.
So this idea
of detachment is one of the essentials to me. We must break our
attachments to our fears. If we don't, we continue to struggle
with them. When we're in struggle, we cannot be happy. We must
finally realize that when we resist what we fear, we simply create
more of it. Attachment is usually associated with some pain,
the purpose of which is to get our attention, so that we will
recognize it. We have fear that we will be abandoned by someone
and the thoughts of the potential abandonment are painful. We
are terrified that we cannot survive without the person in whose
hands we have placed our sense of security. The pain is to bring
us to the awareness that we can trust in the universe rather
than someone or something or some condition outside of us.
It is our
attachment to these outside things that are the cause of our
pain. The universe is always trying to lead us back to correction--the
Truth that everything emanates from our Source (within). Our
belief that we need these outside things for our survival is
an error. It is a false belief. We fear breaking our attachment.
We think we will face disaster without them, when in truth, we
will surely experience what we fear unless we are willing to
give up the attachment. I can assure you that you will not win
going against Truth and the incontrovertible laws of the universe,
but you will truly experience heaven when you turn to the Source
of All That Is. The Source is within--not out there. It will
provide for you everything and more that you need to do your
work here in comfort and ease. When you drop resistance and attachment,
ease is the result. Ease brings ease.
Now can you
see why I say that these are essentials? They are also related.
All of the Truths are related; that's one of things that makes
them seem more complex and voluminous than they are. Don't delay.
Stop resisting; drop your attachments to fear now. What else
do you need to know?
Copyright ©, 2007, William Gunderson
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